This is bringing up every grievance from the last five years at once. It creates noise that drowns out your actual point.
The irony of being understood by others is that it often requires us to understand ourselves first. If you are a mystery to yourself, you will always be a mystery to others. you_dont_understand_me
If they feel responsible for your pain, they may "shut down" or deflect to avoid feeling like a "bad person." This is bringing up every grievance from the
Expecting someone to "just know" what you need is a setup for disappointment. Even the people who love you most cannot read your mind. 3. How to Make Yourself Understood you_dont_understand_me
Some people lack the vocabulary to process complex emotions.