The Art Of People: 11 Simple People Skills That... May 2026

Use tools like the Enneagram assessment to recognize your own motivations and those of the people around you.

Use "tell-me-more" questions to let others talk about themselves, which builds immediate rapport.

Guide others by sharing knowledge and insights rather than just giving orders. The Art of People: 11 Simple People Skills That...

Instead of arguing, focus on finding common ground and responding in ways that show you are on the same page.

Regularly acknowledge and thank the people in your life; a small gesture like a smile or a thank-you goes a long way. Use tools like the Enneagram assessment to recognize

Use your authenticity and appreciation for others' contributions to motivate them toward common goals.

Differentiate between "fixable" punctures and "unfixable" blowouts in relationships to know where to invest your energy. Instead of arguing, focus on finding common ground

Focus on building a network of priority relationships rather than just increasing your friend count.