: Wait for the emotional intensity to subside before discussing the boundary or contract that was violated. 🤝 Key Themes for Reflection
: Instead of hoping someone will do the dishes because you cooked, state it as a clear agreement to avoid resentment building up. 3. Provide Space to Cool Down [S2E19] Cross my Heart
: It is rooted in bargains and loyalty—the "I do this for you, you do this for me" mentality. : Wait for the emotional intensity to subside
: Ask "Do you need a hug?" rather than trying to fix the problem with logic first. 2. Clarify the "Bargains" [S2E19] Cross my Heart