Comparing your Chapter 1 to someone else's Chapter 20 is a recipe for bitterness. Focus on your own progress and what you can actually change.
Here is a blog post exploring this concept, how to spot it, and how to neutralize it. poison envy
You believe the other person is undeserving and you feel a motivation to pull them down. It is often a mask for deep self-doubt and insecurity. 2. Signs You’re the Target (or the Source) Comparing your Chapter 1 to someone else's Chapter
Instead of judging yourself for feeling "bad," recognize that it’s human to feel inadequate sometimes. You believe the other person is undeserving and
How to Overcome Envy So It Doesn't Poison Your Relationships
If you feel poison envy taking root, or if you're dealing with an envious peer, try these strategies:
Poison envy rarely shows its face directly. Instead, it leaks out through: