If you find yourself constantly trying to "remind" yourself that this isn't a relationship, it might be because your feelings (or his) are shifting.
Keep hanging out with people who share your current life stage; they provide a reality check that someone much older might not. If you find yourself constantly trying to "remind"
Are you in it for mentorship, companionship, or something casual? Knowing your motive helps you avoid getting hurt if things stay undefined. Knowing your motive helps you avoid getting hurt
To help you move forward, here is a quick guide on managing a "not-quite-a-relationship" with a much older man: 1. Define Your Boundaries Are you looking to things with him, or
Ensure you aren't becoming overly reliant on his advice or resources.
Are you looking to things with him, or are you trying to find a way to distance yourself emotionally?